He may, or may not, but he is not supportive either way. In the previous example, the “please” was left out intentionally. He will not say “thank you”, “you’re welcome”, “please” or even “excuse me” to you.“Honey, go pick up some soda for me.” sounds like a genuine request for assistance. It is because he is expecting you to comply with his requests.In conclusion, we all need to feel love in our lives.
You should always remember to respect yourself, and not be fooled into believing that you are any less of a person than anyone else.
Explore your inner feelings and motivations by reading books about avoiding abuse, getting positive reinforcement from healthy living programs and finding a support group.
Putting himself in a “father figure” position will install more of a sense of control.
Treating you like a child that went to the mall, prior to doing her homework, is the kind of humiliation in you he is trying to achieve.
Put yourself on a pedestal, and never let any boyfriend make you feel as if you don’t belong there.