To be fair, your friends may have a point: It is sexy to be with someone different, and there is a certain pride in attracting the interest of a younger mate.But there's more than that to your new relationship, as you know, so you could do without the nudges and winks.
There could be numerous reasons for this and, believe it or not, it’s not always about the sex. Let’s just hope she wasn’t married to Mr Missionary for 20 years…
If you’re attracted to older women you need to seriously up your game – drinks at a grotty man pub and some £4.99 supermarket flowers will be met with disdain. If she’s taking you out for dinner make sure your table manners are up to scratch. Think the theatre, the Booker prize and long country walks. It’s not quick or easy but then it’s not quicker or easy for her to have such great hair, make-up and style.
The most unstable are where only one has had a divorce.
The report concluded: ‘It appears men and women “choose” their mates on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of tastes, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values.
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